Make Wife Want Sex

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You’ve probably been beating around the bush while trying to find ways to make your wife want more sex. The real problem is that your wife probably doesn’t even know that you are longing to be with her more often. Many times, simply stating your feelings in a respectable and calm fashion will give you the results that you desire so deeply. If you have a functional and healthy marriage then your wife loves you and would do nearly anything to make you happy. While you’ve spent sleepless nights worried about your sex life, she was probably thinking about the mortgage. Two people, no matter how deep their connection runs, can simply get out of sync when it comes to priorities.


In all actuality, the woman you have devoted your life to may have been thinking the exact same thing. The difference is is that women often have a problem expressing their needs when it comes to sex, so you would help to quell their nervousness by stating the problem yourself. Don’t expect to complain about a lack of sex and then get some right then and there. Instead, make sure that you and your wife will have plenty of opportunities to seal the deal in the near future. Try to get to the root of the problem by talking it out and keep the option of therapy open if you still aren’t seeing eye to eye.

Nothing makes a guy happier than when his wife is the aggressor and makes a sexual rendezvous happen. While this situation can be just as enthralling for the woman, don’t expect it to happen every single time. Men and women both enjoy being pursued, but if either party feels that they are more of the aggressor than the prize then they are likely to back off a bit. Even if you haven’t been depending on your wife to initiate most sexual liaisons, you should still initiate it if you really want it. The worst that can happen is being shot down, but if you do nothing, well, then nothing will happen. Initiating sex repeatedly probably wont make your wife want more sex, but it will at least let you know that the problem isn’t on your end.

A lot of people fail to realize that initiating sex isn’t just a subtle hint or an offer of selfless carnal pleasures. If you really want to have sex, then you need to open up your mouth and ask for it. Many times, it is hard to vocally express what you want in a tactful and undemanding way, but you can get better at this with practice. Be well prepared to engage in a conversation on the topic of sex, complete with a list of what you want, what you are willing to give and list of questions for your wife. Often, if you can talk it out then you will come to a consensus that will give both of you the sex that you crave along with the closeness that is necessary.