Make Wife Want Sex

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Over time, most people will just not want to have sex as often as they did in their youth, but couples can find themselves dealing with different rates of sexual proclivities. Marriages in particular suffer from this issue to the point of infidelity, separation and divorce. One of the biggest reasons for these untimely demises of sacred vows simply points back to a lack of understanding. A wife may feel that her resources are stretched so thin that they have no choice but to cut something out, usually sex. It’s not that they desire it less, it just comes lower on the list of things that they need to dedicate time to. By contrast, men are socially engineered to put sex higher on their list of priorities, which ends up making them less sensitive to the dynamics behind their wives engaging in it less often.


The one thing you can do to make your wife want more sex is simply to listen. It sounds far fetched, but listening to her wants, desires, frustrations and complaints can help to create a happier marriage and expose more resources. No one wants to fight are argue, but listening should not be compared to the two. Maybe your wife has been left unsatisfied with your sexual performance and wants to taking some time away to get things in perspective. Other times, daily priorities will make sex a mentally exhausting and physically taxing endeavor. During the act, listen to your wife and ask her how she feels so that you can find out what makes her tick. If you have a firm understanding of what she likes as well as what keep her from having sex with you, you just may be able to get as much as you want.