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When most people think of sexual aids, they think of a woman’s vibrator or that silly little blow up doll that is the joke of the male sex-toy market. It’s rare that anyone considers them more then the realm of the desperate, or for the kinky, or for those that need a little bit of a hand. It’s certainly a personal object, one that you wouldn’t give as a gift unless it was a novelty or someone thought they were desperate to spice up their sex life. It’s even rarer that someone could consider one a romantic gift for spouses, especially a luxury gift from one partner to another. That is a shame; because there is a market out there, for those with the money and the appreciation for the fine things, you can find an entire line of gold plated dildos and sexual toys.

What do you think your wife is going to say when she considers the thought, the money and the pleasure that can go into one of these very special toys. If you can think of a better way to make your wife want sex then the feeling of a heavy, metal-slick and precious toy exploring her body, then I would love to hear it. You don’t need an excuse to ‘spice up’ your relationship with one of these toys, because it shows you appreciate your partner’s pleasure and you are willing to go all out in order to satisfy them.

Right now Gold Sex Toys has three toys that they offer, two dildos and a small butt plug. All of them are made with stainless, and then plated in gold, so they are all hefty for their size, which can contribute to a very satisfying full feeling for your partner. Since they are shaped specifically to hit sensitive spots in the body; the simple curve of the G-spot dildo, or the steadily increasing gold balls of the deluxe version will help you and your partner get an exciting finish each time.

Gold also has the advantage that it is non-reactive when it is at this purity level, so you are not going to tarnish your lovely toy when you get…exuberant with your pleasures. It is easy to care for, wash, and with a little bit of hot water, or an hour in the fridge you can add a thrilling temperature change to your play. These toys are an intense, pleasurable luxury, and they will certainly have your partner forgetting about a silly little necklace as your next gift.

Every individual is different in the “sack”. Some lovers enjoy one way, and others another. It’s all personal preference. In many cases people may not realize that they actually enjoy certain things that they have not experienced. One of those things is good foreplay, more specifically pleasing your woman with foreplay. Even just a few foreplay ideas could really spice it up for your lady in the bedroom and lead to a better sexual experience.

The simplest form of foreplay is the eloquent use of your tongue, but not in the sexual contact sense. Compliments go a long way, both with men and women. Tell your special woman how beautiful she is, or how sexy she looks. Words go a long way in enticing her and exciting her. The next thing is intimate contact & caresses like a gentle massage or sensual kisses. A little teasing never hurt.

While you’re being creative, find out what parts of her body respond the most to your touch. Explore her body and focus on the areas that please her most. Even mild attempts at new things will work as long as she is ok with the uncharted territory. Know her limits and her “safe zones” and keep it comfortable. The most obvious thing to know well is where her “G-Spot” is. That knowledge will guarantee to make her happy and will definitely make her feel that you know her body and want to please her.

Well… yes and no. It matters if you’re a lazy bloke in the sex department. Not really if you’re truly interested in satisfying her.

While having a larger penis certainly doesn’t hurt your odds of getting what you want, being smaller in stature doesn’t have to be the end of the line! There are many ways to ensure she has as much pleasure as you do and that she’ll want you back inside her again and again.

Find The G-Spot

The G-spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. It is the same as, or part of, the urethral sponge, the site of Skene’s glands.

Learn how to find her g-spot — Believe me, it exists, and it is worth it to find it. You will have her screaming for more. During foreplay, dig around a bit at various angles until you find a small spot of fleshy/spongy feeling skin. It’s probably a few inches inside and could be at several different angles. If you find it, you’ll know as she will be squirming instantly.

Foreplay

Have lots of foreplay. Learn how to lick a clit very very well. If you can manage to find and massage the g-spot at the same time, she’ll want you again even if you’re only 2 inches long! Lots of kissing and touching and licking can go a long way, add those fingers into the mix while you’re down there and you’ve got nothing to worry about. Trust me.

Learn the Right Sex Positions

Experiment with different positions that allow deep penetration and clit stimulation by both of you. Doggy style with her legs closed is a universal favorite and the rabbit ear position with the girl on her back and legs drawn back to her ears is also a great position that allows plenty of access.

Be Groomed

You don’t have to wax your balls, but be neat and trim. The less hair you have down there, the bigger your penis will look. Shower AFTER you groom so you get rid of any excess hairs. If your woman likes the taste of you, a hair in her teeth will turn her off faster than you can sneeze!

Be Prepared

If you have trouble holding on longer than 5-10 minutes, rub one out before the evening begins so you are ready to go the extra mile and last long enough for you both to be satisfied.

Be Confidant

If you’ve turned her on so much that she’s begging for it, she is ready to have you as her sex partner!

If you think romance consists of telling your wife to roll over in the middle of the night because you woke up with an erection, try again. Every single woman loves nothing more to spend romantic time alone with her lover before collapsing into the throws of passion. To make your wife want more sex, try getting creative with a few spur of the moment romantic outings. A romantic evening doesn’t have to cost a lot of money, actually, it doesn’t even need to take place at night. All romance means is that you’re prepared a designated time in which you and your wife are meant to connect on a deeper level, all by yourselves. Women often feel neglected, so to surprise her with an activity that meant you had to be thinking about her in advance will thrill her beyond belief. Naturally, the time you spend together will likely be non-sexual in nature, but it will be obvious that intercourse will be appearing later on the menu.

Try making a meal that includes all of her favorite foods, a night bottle of wine, some candles and a new rented movie. You’ll definitely impress her by cooking her favorite meal, probably even if you destroy the kitchen in the process. After downing an entire bottle of wine and ending the evening while watching a movie, it’s safe to say that you’ll end up fooling around on the couch before heading to the bedroom. Not only will you wake up to a big smile in the morning, you probably just won yourself a ticket to a repeat performance.

Far too many guys are eager to commence to the act without putting in the proper amount of work on their ladies beforehand. If you are lucky enough to have your wife simply ask for sex, don’t take advantage of the situation and act selfishly. Instead, spend a little time making sure that she is up to the task by ensuring that her motor is running just as strong as yours is.

Unlike men, women may mentally want to have sex but their bodies may not necessarily be there yet. Just one instance of doing the do without warming up your wife’s lady parts will turn her off completely. Do it repeatedly and she just might swear of sex for weeks at a time. If you want to make your wife want more sex you will need to spend  the proper amount of time and spend quality attention to her physical needs first.

Foreplay is not to be confused with romantic gestures like jewelry, candy and flowers. While those things are nice too, they will do little for a woman’s libido. Also, don’t think that foreplay consists of oral stimulation only. Many women respond quite well to having their necks, thighs, backs and stomachs attended to in a plethora of different fashions.

Deep kisses, caressing and exploration doesn’t have to take a long time, but it should last longer than a minute or two.

The point is, foreplay should never be rushed, but take care to pay attention to the indicators that will tell you when it’s time to go for the gusto.

You don’t need gizmos and gadgets for good foreplay, but if you’re looking to spice things up, there’s always oils, edible lingerie, toys, and other fun items to try out for variety.