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If You Want More Sex Then Say It
Nothing makes a guy happier than when his wife is the aggressor and makes a sexual rendezvous happen. While this situation can be just as enthralling for the woman, don’t expect it to happen every single time. Men and women both enjoy being pursued, but if either party feels that they are more of the aggressor than the prize then they are likely to back off a bit. Even if you haven’t been depending on your wife to initiate most sexual liaisons, you should still initiate it if you really want it. The worst that can happen is being shot down, but if you do nothing, well, then nothing will happen. Initiating sex repeatedly probably wont make your wife want more sex, but it will at least let you know that the problem isn’t on your end.
A lot of people fail to realize that initiating sex isn’t just a subtle hint or an offer of selfless carnal pleasures. If you really want to have sex, then you need to open up your mouth and ask for it. Many times, it is hard to vocally express what you want in a tactful and undemanding way, but you can get better at this with practice. Be well prepared to engage in a conversation on the topic of sex, complete with a list of what you want, what you are willing to give and list of questions for your wife. Often, if you can talk it out then you will come to a consensus that will give both of you the sex that you crave along with the closeness that is necessary.



