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If you want to increase the romance in your life there’s one simple way to do it. Add the right scents. Certain aromas have been known to increase romantic feelings in both men and women.

Lavender is one of the most popular scents that inspire romance. Women especially find it appealing. If you want to inspire your man though just add the scent of pumpkin pie. Yes, pumpkin pie combined with lavender is the winning combination for scents that will arouse both parties. You can use candles or aromatic oils in combination to get the maximum affect.

Some scents do have an appeal toward specific genders. Women in particular are affected by baby powder and anise. If you add the scent of cucumber it is even more appealing. Men tend to react to anise as well and citrus scents are enticing, too.

Then there are scents that are appealing for both genders. Men and women like the scents of jasmine, sandalwood, patchouli, and sage. These are great scents to use on your body. Perfumes and body oils can affect your partner. Just make sure it is not something they are allergic to.

Another great way to use aromas is with massage oils. Generally, a massage is a great way to help someone relax. Combine it with some enticing aromas and you may have exactly the romantic combination you are looking for. You should use and essential oil and a carrier oil. The carrier oil will make sure that it is nice smelling but will not overpower the senses. Good essential oils are florals, green and woody oils, and citrus oils. You can combine them with olive oil, almond oil, or wheat germ oil. Remember that everyone is different so you might need to experiment, but think of all the fun you will have finding out which aromas work best for you and your partner.

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Every individual is different in the “sack”. Some lovers enjoy one way, and others another. It’s all personal preference. In many cases people may not realize that they actually enjoy certain things that they have not experienced. One of those things is good foreplay, more specifically pleasing your woman with foreplay. Even just a few foreplay ideas could really spice it up for your lady in the bedroom and lead to a better sexual experience.

The simplest form of foreplay is the eloquent use of your tongue, but not in the sexual contact sense. Compliments go a long way, both with men and women. Tell your special woman how beautiful she is, or how sexy she looks. Words go a long way in enticing her and exciting her. The next thing is intimate contact & caresses like a gentle massage or sensual kisses. A little teasing never hurt.

While you’re being creative, find out what parts of her body respond the most to your touch. Explore her body and focus on the areas that please her most. Even mild attempts at new things will work as long as she is ok with the uncharted territory. Know her limits and her “safe zones” and keep it comfortable. The most obvious thing to know well is where her “G-Spot” is. That knowledge will guarantee to make her happy and will definitely make her feel that you know her body and want to please her.

You’ve probably been beating around the bush while trying to find ways to make your wife want more sex. The real problem is that your wife probably doesn’t even know that you are longing to be with her more often. Many times, simply stating your feelings in a respectable and calm fashion will give you the results that you desire so deeply. If you have a functional and healthy marriage then your wife loves you and would do nearly anything to make you happy. While you’ve spent sleepless nights worried about your sex life, she was probably thinking about the mortgage. Two people, no matter how deep their connection runs, can simply get out of sync when it comes to priorities.


In all actuality, the woman you have devoted your life to may have been thinking the exact same thing. The difference is is that women often have a problem expressing their needs when it comes to sex, so you would help to quell their nervousness by stating the problem yourself. Don’t expect to complain about a lack of sex and then get some right then and there. Instead, make sure that you and your wife will have plenty of opportunities to seal the deal in the near future. Try to get to the root of the problem by talking it out and keep the option of therapy open if you still aren’t seeing eye to eye.

Sometimes when a woman says, “It’s not you, it’s me,” she really means it. Mental stress, distractions and obligations can make even the randiest of people want to crawl into a ball and forget all about fornication. Your wife may be a regular Wonderwoman, but even she will have to cut something out of her regular schedule if she wants to keep flying like a superhero. Not wanting sex because of stress shouldn’t be confused with physical exhaustion. You may think that your wife is making up excuses when the kids are away on a Saturday afternoon and she still resists your advances. If you have ever been under tremendous amount of stress, you will know what it feels like when you try to focus on just about anything. To alleviate this temporary block and make your wife want more sex, you’ll have to become her knight in shining armor for a short time by helping her deal with her overwhelming load of priorities.

To do this, you will have to volunteer to help, learn her schedule and take over some of her daily tasks. You may have to handle some cooking, bills, cleaning, or carpooling. Likely, you’ll end up just as stressed and exhausted as she is, but getting your wife back to her old self will be just what you need to get your gears working in hyper mode. Taking over doesn’t have to be permanent, instead you can opt to take turns, but by relieving your wife of at least some of her stress will have you back into the swing of things.

It’s not easy to admit when you notice that your body has changed from age, lack of good nutrition or other factors. Even if your wife is in better or worse shape than yourself, you have to realize that humans are by nature visual creatures. Just as you can become easily turned off by the sight of a big gut, dumpy thighs, body odor or a shoddy appearance, women will respond in equal terms. So take a good look at yourself and see if your body has taken a turn for the worst in comparison to when you first got married. Even if your abs are hard enough to serve breakfast on, has anything else changed? Are you walking around with a bushy beard and a wardrobe from 1983? You just might want to brush up on your physical appearance if you want to make your wife want more sex.

Having your way with your wife anytime you want will be as easy as making yourself completely irresistible. Okay, that might sound like a feat fit for the gods, but if she’s already married you it’s safe to say that she at least once thought of you that way at one time. If you’ve got a gut, get to exercising, or get yourself a membership to a gym, pronto. If you’ve got grooming or wardrobe difficulties, get the advice of a trusted and trendy friend and have them give you an impromptu make over. Surprise your wife with a well packaged finished result and you’ll notice your sex life taking a complete 180 degree turn for the better.

Well… yes and no. It matters if you’re a lazy bloke in the sex department. Not really if you’re truly interested in satisfying her.

While having a larger penis certainly doesn’t hurt your odds of getting what you want, being smaller in stature doesn’t have to be the end of the line! There are many ways to ensure she has as much pleasure as you do and that she’ll want you back inside her again and again.

Find The G-Spot

The G-spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. It is the same as, or part of, the urethral sponge, the site of Skene’s glands.

Learn how to find her g-spot — Believe me, it exists, and it is worth it to find it. You will have her screaming for more. During foreplay, dig around a bit at various angles until you find a small spot of fleshy/spongy feeling skin. It’s probably a few inches inside and could be at several different angles. If you find it, you’ll know as she will be squirming instantly.

Foreplay

Have lots of foreplay. Learn how to lick a clit very very well. If you can manage to find and massage the g-spot at the same time, she’ll want you again even if you’re only 2 inches long! Lots of kissing and touching and licking can go a long way, add those fingers into the mix while you’re down there and you’ve got nothing to worry about. Trust me.

Learn the Right Sex Positions

Experiment with different positions that allow deep penetration and clit stimulation by both of you. Doggy style with her legs closed is a universal favorite and the rabbit ear position with the girl on her back and legs drawn back to her ears is also a great position that allows plenty of access.

Be Groomed

You don’t have to wax your balls, but be neat and trim. The less hair you have down there, the bigger your penis will look. Shower AFTER you groom so you get rid of any excess hairs. If your woman likes the taste of you, a hair in her teeth will turn her off faster than you can sneeze!

Be Prepared

If you have trouble holding on longer than 5-10 minutes, rub one out before the evening begins so you are ready to go the extra mile and last long enough for you both to be satisfied.

Be Confidant

If you’ve turned her on so much that she’s begging for it, she is ready to have you as her sex partner!

We have few occasions in life that allow us to physically explore and get to know the human body in the way that massage does. Not only is it relaxing, sensual and satisfying, it can lead to the giver and recipient getting to know each other in a much deeper way. If you want to make your wife want more sex, you are going to need to stimulate her in new and exciting ways. Nothing turns a woman on faster than taking off her shoes after a long day at work and giving her feet a thorough massage. If she doesn’t end up falling fast asleep, she’ll probably rip off your clothes and jump your bones. Don’t get upset if she does end up dozing off because she won’t forget what you treated her to, and she’ll reward you in the best way she knows how.

While you probably already pulled a how-to guide on deep tissue body massages, you should ask your wife to return the favor as well. Giving a massage can be just as pleasurable as being on the receiving end, so make sure that you tell her how much you appreciate the gesture and ask how you can pay her back. A little oil and a lot of exposed flesh will go a long way to enticing your wife into more frequent sexual excursions.

It’s highly possible that your wife has gotten just as bored with your sex routine if she hasn’t been in the mood for awhile. Habits can be a great thing, but if you are both anticipating sex in the missionary position every first and third Tuesday of the month, your sex life is beyond stale. To make your wife want more sex, you’re going to have to try new things. Whips and chains are not necessary, but a book on sexual positions, toys, body paints or even a dirty movie could be just what you need to get the blood really flowing.

Even if you are afraid that your wife is shy or will be too embarrassed to try new things, you’d be surprised at the results when you take the initiative to voice what you’ve both been thinking. It may take her a little bit of time to warm up to the idea, but get yourself ready for the day that asks you where you put ‘the stuff’. Unfortunately, society has deemed that it is not proper for a woman to appear eager and willing to do unorthodox things in the bedroom, so your wife may have to get over that mental block before she is willing to admit that she’s game. If your new sexual trysts have positive results, you might just come home to a whole world of fun sex games that will leave you happy and fulfilled.

Over time, most people will just not want to have sex as often as they did in their youth, but couples can find themselves dealing with different rates of sexual proclivities. Marriages in particular suffer from this issue to the point of infidelity, separation and divorce. One of the biggest reasons for these untimely demises of sacred vows simply points back to a lack of understanding. A wife may feel that her resources are stretched so thin that they have no choice but to cut something out, usually sex. It’s not that they desire it less, it just comes lower on the list of things that they need to dedicate time to. By contrast, men are socially engineered to put sex higher on their list of priorities, which ends up making them less sensitive to the dynamics behind their wives engaging in it less often.


The one thing you can do to make your wife want more sex is simply to listen. It sounds far fetched, but listening to her wants, desires, frustrations and complaints can help to create a happier marriage and expose more resources. No one wants to fight are argue, but listening should not be compared to the two. Maybe your wife has been left unsatisfied with your sexual performance and wants to taking some time away to get things in perspective. Other times, daily priorities will make sex a mentally exhausting and physically taxing endeavor. During the act, listen to your wife and ask her how she feels so that you can find out what makes her tick. If you have a firm understanding of what she likes as well as what keep her from having sex with you, you just may be able to get as much as you want.

Now, before you read this next suggestion to make your wife want more sex, you will need to know that sometimes a little cunning behavior will be needed to get the desired results. If you’ve already tried asking, romantic evenings, getting yourself fit and sophisticated looking, then you may just have to throw in the towel. That doesn’t mean that you are giving up on getting the goods, it just means that you will appear that way to your wife. If you’ve been putting your best foot forward, it is safe to say that your woman has noticed. Who really knows what’s in their heads, but they aren’t clueless when it comes to the topic of men wanting more sex. In these situations, it is best to act like you are no longer interested in getting your wife in the sack. Note that this will be hard, stressful and at best, an extremely trying time that best both your sanity and any physical indicators.


If your wife has seen that you are hard up for sex, then she will likely be waiting to see what step you take next. While she’s waiting for the real wow factor, you should be busy taking an interest in, I don’t know, maybe golfing. Plan a romantic evening at home, and ½ way through the movie announce that you are tired and want to hit the sack. If your wife isn’t five seconds behind you, then you may want to consider that there are very serious underlying issues that need to be addressed.