Make Wife Want Sex

It’s not easy to admit when you notice that your body has changed from age, lack of good nutrition or other factors. Even if your wife is in better or worse shape than yourself, you have to realize that humans are by nature visual creatures. Just as you can become easily turned off by the sight of a big gut, dumpy thighs, body odor or a shoddy appearance, women will respond in equal terms. So take a good look at yourself and see if your body has taken a turn for the worst in comparison to when you first got married. Even if your abs are hard enough to serve breakfast on, has anything else changed? Are you walking around with a bushy beard and a wardrobe from 1983? You just might want to brush up on your physical appearance if you want to make your wife want more sex.

Having your way with your wife anytime you want will be as easy as making yourself completely irresistible. Okay, that might sound like a feat fit for the gods, but if she’s already married you it’s safe to say that she at least once thought of you that way at one time. If you’ve got a gut, get to exercising, or get yourself a membership to a gym, pronto. If you’ve got grooming or wardrobe difficulties, get the advice of a trusted and trendy friend and have them give you an impromptu make over. Surprise your wife with a well packaged finished result and you’ll notice your sex life taking a complete 180 degree turn for the better.

Well… yes and no. It matters if you’re a lazy bloke in the sex department. Not really if you’re truly interested in satisfying her.

While having a larger penis certainly doesn’t hurt your odds of getting what you want, being smaller in stature doesn’t have to be the end of the line! There are many ways to ensure she has as much pleasure as you do and that she’ll want you back inside her again and again.

Find The G-Spot

The G-spot is a small area behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. It is the same as, or part of, the urethral sponge, the site of Skene’s glands.

Learn how to find her g-spot — Believe me, it exists, and it is worth it to find it. You will have her screaming for more. During foreplay, dig around a bit at various angles until you find a small spot of fleshy/spongy feeling skin. It’s probably a few inches inside and could be at several different angles. If you find it, you’ll know as she will be squirming instantly.

Foreplay

Have lots of foreplay. Learn how to lick a clit very very well. If you can manage to find and massage the g-spot at the same time, she’ll want you again even if you’re only 2 inches long! Lots of kissing and touching and licking can go a long way, add those fingers into the mix while you’re down there and you’ve got nothing to worry about. Trust me.

Learn the Right Sex Positions

Experiment with different positions that allow deep penetration and clit stimulation by both of you. Doggy style with her legs closed is a universal favorite and the rabbit ear position with the girl on her back and legs drawn back to her ears is also a great position that allows plenty of access.

Be Groomed

You don’t have to wax your balls, but be neat and trim. The less hair you have down there, the bigger your penis will look. Shower AFTER you groom so you get rid of any excess hairs. If your woman likes the taste of you, a hair in her teeth will turn her off faster than you can sneeze!

Be Prepared

If you have trouble holding on longer than 5-10 minutes, rub one out before the evening begins so you are ready to go the extra mile and last long enough for you both to be satisfied.

Be Confidant

If you’ve turned her on so much that she’s begging for it, she is ready to have you as her sex partner!

We have few occasions in life that allow us to physically explore and get to know the human body in the way that massage does. Not only is it relaxing, sensual and satisfying, it can lead to the giver and recipient getting to know each other in a much deeper way. If you want to make your wife want more sex, you are going to need to stimulate her in new and exciting ways. Nothing turns a woman on faster than taking off her shoes after a long day at work and giving her feet a thorough massage. If she doesn’t end up falling fast asleep, she’ll probably rip off your clothes and jump your bones. Don’t get upset if she does end up dozing off because she won’t forget what you treated her to, and she’ll reward you in the best way she knows how.

While you probably already pulled a how-to guide on deep tissue body massages, you should ask your wife to return the favor as well. Giving a massage can be just as pleasurable as being on the receiving end, so make sure that you tell her how much you appreciate the gesture and ask how you can pay her back. A little oil and a lot of exposed flesh will go a long way to enticing your wife into more frequent sexual excursions.

It’s highly possible that your wife has gotten just as bored with your sex routine if she hasn’t been in the mood for awhile. Habits can be a great thing, but if you are both anticipating sex in the missionary position every first and third Tuesday of the month, your sex life is beyond stale. To make your wife want more sex, you’re going to have to try new things. Whips and chains are not necessary, but a book on sexual positions, toys, body paints or even a dirty movie could be just what you need to get the blood really flowing.

Even if you are afraid that your wife is shy or will be too embarrassed to try new things, you’d be surprised at the results when you take the initiative to voice what you’ve both been thinking. It may take her a little bit of time to warm up to the idea, but get yourself ready for the day that asks you where you put ‘the stuff’. Unfortunately, society has deemed that it is not proper for a woman to appear eager and willing to do unorthodox things in the bedroom, so your wife may have to get over that mental block before she is willing to admit that she’s game. If your new sexual trysts have positive results, you might just come home to a whole world of fun sex games that will leave you happy and fulfilled.